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So, you want to spank someone, but don’t know how? Or, you’re a spanker who has already reddened that first tush, but wants to review technique or learn more? Or, you want to get deeper into your “bottom’s” headspace? After all, there is more to it than just slapping skin as in “high fiving.”
Quoted below, you’ll find an excerpt of Vivian’s newest release, “How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End.” Written by the same author, this 165-page book is designed for partners of people who want to be spanked, and can be used along with “How to Get the Spanking You Want” as a way of communicating about spanking in a relationship. It’s written in the same down-to-earth, easy-to-use and compassionate style as the first book (though more with “Mars” in mind!), and contains insights and advice you won’t find anywhere else about how to get your partner to fulfill your spanking desires. As with the first book, it’s written using he/she for clarity, but is also useful for GLBT relationships.
If you’re interested in either, or both books, link to the publisher’s site for all the details. A bundle purchase discount is available, and there is a “guilt free” option wherein you can share your e-book with others without violating copyright laws. Read all about it at the publisher’s site.
EXCERPTED FROM “How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End”
(Variant Books, 2009, www.HowToGiveaSpanking.com. All rights reserved. Reprinted with Permission.)The Implement is Everything
The implement that’s being used to spank with, most of the time, forms the heart of a spanking fantasy. It’s no accident that spanking fiction is often categorized not only by who’s spanking who (male/female, male/male, etc.), but also by what implement is used. Everything else about the fantasy – all the other details of the fantasy – are often based around the choice of implement.
Very few people are indifferent to which implement they get spanked with, and almost everyone has strong preferences about which implements they are most excited by and which ones leave them cold.
It might make no difference to you whether you spank your partner with a belt, paddle, hand, hairbrush or whatever else, but it probably makes all the difference in the world to her. One might send shivers of delight and dread up her spine, and the other feels alien and uninteresting – and maybe even a bit silly.
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