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The Spencer Spanking Plan – redux
It has been some time since I’ve seen or posted anything about the unique domestic discipline plan commonly known as The Spencer Spanking Plan. So, I thought it would be nice to revisit this topic, and to add it to my Techniques & Commentary page. We should never forget that such a plan exists, or that it can form the foundation for a satisfying domestic discipline (DD) relationship between consenting adults.
This brief introduction appeared in Spanking Life:
Written by Dorothy Spencer in 1936, the Spencer Spanking Plan is a highly structured, cooperative, domestic discipline agreement between husband and wife designed to promote and strengthen marital harmony and stability. Crafted with thought, humanity and balance, this contract may serve as an excellent starting point for those considering a similar arrangement — married or otherwise. In her own words, “The plan was a wonderful success.”
Agony & Ecstasy contains a complete posting of Ms. Spencer’s treatise, and I repost her foreward. Follow the link to read the entire plan.
Foreword
Several years ago I conceived the idea of settling domestic misunderstandings in our home upon a somewhat unique basis – the giving and submitting to carefully regulated corporal punishment.
My idea was to inaugurate a system of cooperative discipline that would sincerely benefit the party at fault and prevent all serious trouble by furnishing a definite, fair and effective method of adjustment. The plan was a wonderful success.
Gratified by the happiness we attained through the operation of our somewhat novel concept, we told a few of our intimate friends of our plan and them, too, adopted the method, reporting to us the same happy results.
The news began to spread, and soon, to my great astonishment, I became besieged with letters from all parts of the country asking for particulars of the “Spencer Spanking Plan,” as they termed it
I shrank from the publicity that all this naturally entailed. It was one thing to tell intimate friends of our arrangement, and quite another to discuss it with strangers.
With reluctance, but feeling perhaps it was my duty, in view of the many earnest appeals for help and advice I received, I answered several of the communications and agreed to send them the information desired – asking a small fee as it took up considerable time and meant not a little work to forward my ideas on the subject to them.
Thus the Spencer Spanking Plan became a definite thing instead of a vague term. I found myself the originator of a System of Cooperative Discipline that bids fair to swoop the nation in a most enthusiastic way.
Of course, and quite naturally, my efforts were misunderstood by many people. I found myself in contact with not a few “cranks” and nit-wits. But on the whole, I secured a splendid reception for my ideas, and I have every reason to believe that my efforts have been productive of much good.
I have never claimed that the Spencer System was an infallible panacea for all the troubles of humanity nor am I of the opinion that it can or should be adopted by everyone.
I do believe, however, that the idea properly operated contains genuine merit and that most any one can derive sincere benefit from it if they adopt the right attitude and live up to the rules and regulations carefully.
I do not prescribe the Spencer Plan as a remedy for you to take. Only physicians are allowed to prescribe and I am not a physician. The law, however, entitles any one to market and sell their beliefs and opinions.
The principles of modern corporal punishment, as defined by the Spencer Plan, have helped me – and many other people – and it is my positive belief and opinion that if you will follow the idea out carefully and properly that it will do the same for you.
Wishing you sincere success, I am,
Very sincerely yours,
DOROTHY SPENCER
Link to http://www.ecstagony.com/eng/info/artdd/ssp.htm to read the entire Spencer Spanking Plan including its agreements.
It’s wedding season
As folks tie the knot during this so-called summer wedding season (at least in the Northern Hemisphere), one wonders how many domestic discipline relationships are also starting.
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Telling it like it is
A caning hurts. Quite a lot. It’s a white-hot slash of pure pain that shocks you upon impact … and then builds up and up until you think you may go crazy. And then, when it’s died down to the point when you are thinking that maybe sanity is an option again … the next stroke comes slashing down…!
And it’s the hottest, hottest thing in the whole wide world.
Thus sayeth Zille Defeu near the beginning of her post that describes, in intimate detail, what a caning means and feels like to her. It’s a wonderful piece that captures the masochist’s mind set when faced with and while absorbing such a wicked, yet sought after, implement. I encourage you to link to Zille, and read her entire post at: http://www.zilledefeu.com/spank/the-cane-what-you-really-think/
Should sisters spank?
We haven’t posted a survey in quite some time, and I thought a hypothetical case study would be of interest. What do you think should be done in the following case? Please feel free to comment, and to answer the questionnaire that is located at the bottom of the center margin of this blog. [UPDATE: August 10, 2008 - the poll is closed. It was overwhelmingly suggested (27-2) that the sisters should spank.]
The question is:
Two adult sisters have just learned of each others interest in spanking. Sister #1 is a dedicated Top who has blistered many bottoms, but has no idea what a paddle feels like. Sister #2 has had a long-time fantasy interest in spanking and thinks she is also a Top, but has never played. Should sister #1 allow herself to be spanked by her sister as a matter of training and education?
Beware the Skirt!
All Things Spanking is starting a new feature today. Peg has been a long-time reader who emails me and posts comments. Her communication is greatly appreciated, as is communication from any reader. Recently, Peg shared with me an agreement she has with her husband within their D/s relationship. I found it intriguing, and asked Peg if she would provide a narrative to share with all readers. So, here we go with our first guest post. I hope more will follow. In this case, all I can say, as stated above, is “Beware the Skirt!”
I am 43 years old, and have been married to my husband, Steve, for 21 years. We have practiced domestic discipline from the time we were married with me fully in charge. I am the one that does the spanking, and he is spanked on a regular basis. Actually, Steve receives at least weekly maintenance or disciplinary spankings, but I also spank him as I please or when I feel he needs it – or has earned it. Needless to say, he is a well spanked husband, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
About two years ago, Steve suggested that I would look very sexy in a denim miniskirt. I did not immediately buy one. After some more encouragement from him, I decided that I would do so with one condition – that whenever I wore the skirt he would be spanked. When I modeled it for him, he was ecstatic. Also, as promised, he received a good, hard, bare-bottom, over-the-knee spanking. This is my normal way to discipline, and trust me, I get the message across.
The skirt causes great excitement when I decide to wear it. Steve loves the way I look in it and that shows, but he also knows that at some point soon he will be assuming the position. A couple of weeks ago, we went to a family gathering, and I wore the skirt. Oh, did I mention that my sister knows about our play activity, and the skirt signal? Her eyes popped wide open when we arrived. Perhaps she feared, that I would paddle Steve’s ass right in front of the entire family. I’m not quite that adventuresome, yet, so I made an excuse that we forgot the lawn chairs and had to go back home to get them. Of course, Steve knew exactly why we were taking this quick trip. I enjoyed the rest of the gathering with the knowledge that he was sporting a very red, tender bottom.
On another occasion we were visiting different family in a rural area, and I again wore the skirt. I love watching him as he admires my legs, but also frets about the upcoming spanking. I offered to run into town to pick some things up. We stopped on the dirt road, and I had him bare his bottom and get over my knee. I paddled him right there in the van. Hmmmm, I probably erred in this case as I could have sent him to look for a stinging, fresh switch.
The canes are ready
Looks like they’re all accounted for … from junior to senior punishment
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