Real-Life Groups, Parties, & Events

The following are spanking-oriented groups or events based in the designated cities. Some of the groups hold events in multiple cities so please check their websites.

Many have prerequisites for attending a meeting or social that are explained at the site to which we link. Although I am not personally familiar with each of these, I strive to post groups that are reputable, active, and free of spam on their discussion board(s). Nevertheless, the standard safety caveats prevail, as they should in any activity related to kink participation.

I welcome your input on these, or other groups that could be added to these lists regardless of their location. Our readership is international. Contact me via email if you have comments or suggestions.

Many events are offered that encompass the full range of BDSM incuding spanking, and they are worthwhile endeavors. However, since the focus of this blog is spanking, I present below special events that are spanking oriented.

Multi-Day Events
Sponsor Event When Comments
Strictly Spanking Boardwalk Badness Weekend Apr 22 – 27 Atlantic City
Lone Star Spanking First Annual LONE STAR SPANKING PARTY May 28 – May 31 A Red-Rumped Renaissance! with a Saturday night Masquerade Ball
Texas All-SWtate Spanking Party Texas All-State Spanking Party (TASSP) Jun 19 – 21
Loving Domestic Discipline The Learning Domestic Discipline Retreat Sep 25 – 28
Spanking Club of NY SCONY Spanking Weekend in the Mountains Oct 9 – 11 plus extra days
One Day or One Session Events
State Location Sponsor When Comments
AZ Phoenix Spank University Apr 25 New Member Orientation Apr 23
Spank University Jun 27 New Member Orientation Jun 25
Spank University Oct 10 New Member Orientation Oct 8
Queen Creek Spank University Dec 12 New Member Orientation Dec 10
CA Hollywood The Hollywood Spanking Group Apr 19 The Lair 1:00 PM – 7:00 PM
San Francisco San Francisco Men's Spanking Party 2nd Sunday of each month See website for details and location
Spank Jul 18 At SF Citadel
Spank Nov 14 At SF Citadel
CO Denver Ms Kimi's Spanking Party May 1 See website for details
DC Washington SpankDC 3rd Saturday of each month M/m group
FL North Miami SISSY SPANKING HAPPY HOUR with Mistress Lovely Apr 24 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM at STUDIO P
MD Baltimore Spanking for Wellness Apr 24 Sacred Spanking II for Deep Connection and Pleasure from 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM at Baltimore Playhouse
Bethesda Spanking for Wellness May 5 Spanking Support Group from 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM
NC Gastonia Carolina Spanking Enthusiast Club Apr 25 7:00 PM – 12:00 AM at The Loft NC
NY Manhattan Paddles NYC First Saturday of Every Month 7:00 – 10:00PM
Manhattan SCONY May 17 from 1:00 – 5:00PM 236 East 3rd St – Lower East Side between Avenue B and Avenue C
Manhattan SCONY Jul 12 from 1:00 – 5:00PM 236 East 3rd St – Lower East Side between Avenue B and Avenue C
OH Toledo Toledo Area Spanko Event Apr 25 8:30PM – 1:30AM
OR Portland Oregon Spanking Party 1st Saturday of every month 1:00PM – 4:00PM
TX Austin Pre-Annual Lone Star Spanking Austin Party May 02 (7:00 PM) – May 03 (12:00 PM) The Community Place TBA closer to date of party

United States Based Groups

Bottoms Up – (Dallas – Ft. Worth)
Carolina Spankers – (Raleigh, NC)
Crimson Moon – (Chicago)
DC Spankers – (Washington, DC)
Florida Moonshine – (Tampa)
HankySpankyMN – (Minneapolis – St. Paul)
Houston Adult Spanking – (Houston)
Iowa Spanking Society – (Des Moines)
Jersey Shore Spankos – (Southern New Jersey)
Manhattan Spanking Association– (New York City)
Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) – Detroit
Motor City Moonshiners – (Detroit)
Omaha Spankings Parties – (Omaha)
Oregon Spanking Party – (Portland, OR)
Our Need and Desire Spanking Group – (Chicago)
Shadow Lane – (Las Vegas)
Southeastern Virginia Spankoholics – (Tidewater Area)
Spankers of the Southeast – (Knoxville)
SCONY (Spanking Club of New York) – (New York City)
Spank – (San Francisco)
Spank University – (Phoenix)
Spanking Parties – (Listing of various groups)
Strictly Spanking NY (SSNY) – (New York City)
The Palms – (Seattle)

USA Male/male Groups

Chicago Spanking Party – (Chicago)
Male Doms for Male Subs – (New York)
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party – (San Francisco)
Sigma – (Washington, DC)
SpankDC – (Washington, DC)

United Kingdom Based Groups

2 Kings Spanking Parties (London)
Courtroom in Session with The Caner
Manchester CP – Male/male group
Moonglow Spanking Club
New Grange Manor
The Slayers


The following are public play sites that cater to BDSM including spanking. Check each site’s web page for hours of operation, cost, rules, etc.

1763 (Atlanta)
Church Spank (Amsterdam, NL)
Club Pedestal (London)
Fetish Factory (Ft. Lauderdale)
Paddles (New York City)
Sanctuary (Los Angeles)
The Citadel (San Francisco)
The Crucible (Washington, DC)
The Loft (Gastonia, NC)
The Sins Center (Chicago)
The Warehouse SC (Greenville, SC)