The following are spanking-oriented groups based in the designated cities. Some of these groups travel, and hold occasional events in other cities.

All groups have prerequisites for attending a meeting or social that are explained at the site to which we link. Although I am not personally familiar with each of these groups, I strive to post groups that are reputable, active, and free of spam on their discussion board(s). Nevertheless, the standard safety caveats prevail, as they should in any activity related to our kink.

I welcome your input on these groups, or other groups that could be added to these lists regardless of their location. Our readership is international. Contact me via email if you have comments or suggestions.

Special Events

Many events are offered that encompass the full range of BDSM incuding spanking, and they certainly are worthwhile endeavors. Since the focus of this blog is spanking, I am presenting below special events that are spanking oriented. This is not intended to be a listing of groups that have spanking parties or socials. Those would be covered by the listings below on this page. Rather, the listings in this sub-category are unique classes or longer events (e.g., weekends) that focus almost exclusively on spanking.

SCONY’s Spanking Weekend in the Mountains with Margaret Davis and Friends
Oct. 10-12, 2014 plus extra days
Theme: “Baseball”
Your room and meals are included in one price!!!!
This is SCONY’s 31st Weekend Celebration!

Full details here

Florida Moonshine October Hotel Party 2014
Date – Thurs Oct 9th – Sun Oct 12th 2014
Time – 7.00 pm Fri to 11.00 am Sun
Place – Daytona Beach
Fee – $50.00

Join us for a long weekend of spanking fun! No formal events…just lots of spanking and relaxing. This will be more of an intimate event, which will give you the opportunity to really get to know our Florida Moonshine members. Think of it as a “Family Reunion”. We will be arriving on Thursday and checking out on Monday. This is a 2 day party, but those of you who wish to stay longer we invite you to stay. We will be providing a hospitality suite for gathering Thursday – Sunday evening.

Crimson Moon Halloween Weekend – October 23-25, 2014 – Chicago metro area

Spanksgiving 2014 is a three day adult educational seminar and play party held at a premier hotel that is exclusive to the event. This is their 18th year!
Date: Friday, November 21st – Sunday, November 23rd
Location: 3-Star Hotel – 15 minutes from downtown St. Louis

The First Annual LONE STAR SPANKING PARTY “A Red-Rumped Renaissance!” with a Saturday night Masquerade Ball

Thursday, May 28, 2015 at 12:00 PM – Sunday, May 31, 2015 at 11:00 PM

Brought to you by the crew that made the Texas All-State Spanking Party such an event. Come join us for the premier of this spanking spectacular, the first of its kind ever in Houston, TX!

Read all the details here

Texas All-State Spanking Party (TASSP) – June 19-21, 2015

Florida Moonshine Tropical Beach Party 2015
Date – Friday, June 20, 2015 to Sunday, June 22, 2015
Time – 7.00 pm Fri to 11.00 am Sun
Place – Daytona Beach
Fee – $150.00
Registration Ends June 6, 2014 – We will need final head count to prepare for food

Our Tropical Beach Party is the biggest Florida spanking event of the year. We host the party at a stunning resort hotel that prides itself on customer service. We will have two complete floors dedicated only to FMS. The official event is from Friday to Sunday. Many will be traveling from all over the country and also coming from across the pond. For that reason we will be arriving on Thursday and checking out on Monday.

United States Based Groups

Boston Metro Spanking Personals – (Boston Metro)
Bottoms Up – (Dallas – Ft. Worth)
Carolina Spankers – (Raleigh, NC)
Crimson Moon – (Chicago)
DC Spankers – (Washington, DC)
Florida Moonshine – (Tampa)
HankySpankyMN – (Minneapolis – St. Paul)
Houston Adult Spanking – (Houston)
Iowa Spanking Society – (Des Moines)
Jersey Shore Spankos – (Southern New Jersey)
KC Spanks Club – (Kansas City)
Los Angeles Spanking Personals – (Los Angeles)
Manhattan Spanking Association- (New York City)
Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) – Detroit
Missy By Invitation Only OC – (Southern California)
Motor City Moonshiners – (Detroit)
Orange County Spanking Personals – (Orange County, CA)
Our Need and Desire Spanking Group – (Chicago)
San Diego Spanking – (San Diego)
San Diego Spanking Personals – (San Diego)
Santa Ana OTK Spanking Parties – (Santa Ana)
Shadow Lane – (Las Vegas)
Southeastern Virginia Spankoholics – (Tidewater Area)
Spankers of the Southeast – (Knoxville)
SCONY (Spanking Club of New York) – (New York City)
Spanking Parties – (Listing of various groups)
Strictly Spanking NY (SSNY) – (New York City)
The Palms – (Seattle)

USA Male/male Groups

Chicago Spanking Party – (Chicago)
Male Doms for Male Subs – (New York)
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party – (San Francisco)
SpankDC – (Washington, DC)

Canadian Based Groups

Lethbridge and Area Spanking Group – (Lethbridge)
Red Hot Fun – (Toronto)
Spanking in Edmonton – (Edmonton)

United Kingdom Based Groups

2 Kings Spanking Parties (London)
Manchester CP – Male/male group
Moonglow Spanking Club
New Grange Manor
Southern UK Spanking and BDSM (SUKSBDSM)
The Slayers


The following are public play sites that cater to BDSM including spanking. Check each site’s web page for hours of operation, cost, rules, etc.

1763 (Atlanta)
Church Spank (Amsterdam, NL)
Club Pedestal (London)
Fetish Factory (Ft. Lauderdale)
Paddles (New York City)
Sanctuary (Los Angeles)
The Citadel (San Francisco)
The Crucible (Washington, DC)
The Loft (Gastonia, NC)
The Sins Center (Chicago)

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