The following are spanking-oriented groups or events based in the designated countries and cities in the USA. Link here to see non-USA groups & events. Some of the groups hold events in multiple cities so please check their websites.

Many have prerequisites for attending a meeting or social that are explained at the site to which we link. Although I am not personally familiar with each of these, I strive to post groups that are reputable, active, and free of spam on their discussion board(s). Nevertheless, the standard safety caveats prevail, as they should in any activity related to kink participation.

I welcome your input on these, or other groups that could be added to these lists regardless of their location. Our readership is international. Contact me via email if you have comments or suggestions.

Many events are offered that encompass the full range of BDSM incuding spanking, and they are worthwhile endeavors. However, since the focus of this blog is spanking, I present below special events that are spanking oriented.

Multi-Day Events (USA)
Sponsor Event When Comments
Loving Domestic Discipline The Learning Domestic Discipline Retreat Sep 25 – 28
Big Easy Bottoms Up Spanking Party Details here Oct 1 – 4
Spanking Club of NY SCONY Spanking Weekend in the Mountains Oct 9 – 11 plus extra days
Bottoms Up Dallas Bottoms Up Dallas Back-to-School Spanking Party! Aug 14 – 16
Lone Star Spanking Party 2016 Lone Star Spanking May 19 – 22 (2016)
Texas All-State Spanking Party Texas All-State Spanking Party (TASSP) June 23 – 26 (2016) Stay tuned for details

One Day or One Session Events (USA)
State Location Sponsor When Comments
AZ Phoenix Spank University Oct 10 New Member Orientation Oct 8
Queen Creek Spank University Dec 12 New Member Orientation Dec 10
CA San Francisco San Francisco Men's Spanking Party 2nd Sunday of each month See website for details and location
San Francisco Spank Jul 18 At SF Citadel
San Francisco Spank Nov 14 At SF Citadel
CO Denver Ms Kimi's Spanking Party Jul 25
CT Hartford The Society November 7 Spankos Invasion 6 – Spanksgiving – Details TBA
DC Washington SpankDC 3rd Saturday of each month M/m group
FL Pompano Red Palms Spanking Party Jul 19 6:00 PM –10:00 PM at Command Performance
GA Atlanta Area SwatLanta Jul 18
Atlanta Area SwatLanta Oct 17
MI Belleville MSP's Great American Lash – Spanks & Stripes Aug 1 6:30 PM – 12:00 AM
NC Charlotte CAPEX Paddle Workshop with Gator and social Jul 25 from 3:00 PM – 2:00 AM Membership and registration required – link here
NY Manhattan Paddles NYC First Saturday of Every Month 7:00 – 10:00PM
Manhattan Men Spanking Men Parties In NYC 4th Thursday of each month 250 W 26th St between 7th & 8th Ave – Far Right door
Manhattan SCONY Jul 12 from 1:00 – 5:00PM Nuyorican Poet's Cafe – 236 East 3rd St – Lower East Side between Avenue B and Avenue C
Manhattan SCONY Aug 16 from 1:00 – 5:00PM Nuyorican Poet's Cafe – 236 East 3rd St – Lower East Side between Avenue B and Avenue C
PA Laury's Station Miss Lydia's & Lady Saigon's First Spanktacular Jul 25 6:00 PM – 12:00 AM
Philadelphia Delco Spankos Sep 19 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Philadelphia Delco Spankos Nov To be announced
TX Dallas Spanking 101 and Alice Michaels present:Spanking naughty guys and gals workshop Jul 10 8:00 PM –10:00 PM
Dallas Bottoms Up Dallas Halloween Spanking Party! Oct 10 7:00 PM – 2:00 AM
Dallas Bottoms Up Dallas Christmas Spanking Party! Dec 5 7:00 PM – 2:00 AM
North Texas the SAINTs Jul 18 Link here for info
North Texas the SAINTs Sep 12 Link here for info
North Texas the SAINTs Nov 7 Link here for info
USA Multiple locations Learning Domestic Discipline Various dates and times Link for full list of cities and details
WA Seattle The Palms Jul 11 dinner
Seattle The Palms Sep 12 dinner
Seattle The Palms Nov 14 dinner


United States Based Groups

Bottoms Up – (Dallas – Ft. Worth)
Carolina Spanking Enthusiast Club – (Greensboro)
Crimson Moon – (Chicago)
DC Spankers – (Washington, DC)
Delco Spankos – (Philadelphia)
Florida Moonshine – (Tampa)
HankySpankyMN – (Minneapolis – St. Paul)
Houston Adult Spanking – (Houston)
Iowa Spanking Society – (Des Moines)
Jersey Shore Spankos – (Southern New Jersey)
Learning Domestic Discipline – (Various Cities)
Manhattan Spanking Association– (New York City)
Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) – (Detroit)
Michigan Spanking and Pleasures (MSP) – (Detroit, Ann Arbor)
NC – Triangle Spankers Club – (Raleigh)
Omaha Spankings Parties – (Omaha)
Oregon Spanking Party – (Portland, OR)
Our Need and Desire Spanking Group – (Chicago)
Shadow Lane – (Las Vegas)
Southeastern Virginia Spankoholics – (Tidewater Area)
Spankers of the Southeast – (Knoxville)
SCONY (Spanking Club of New York) – (New York City)
Spank – (San Francisco)
Spank University – (Phoenix)
Spanking Parties – (Listing of various groups)
Strictly Spanking NY (SSNY) – (New York City)
The Palms – (Seattle)

USA Male/male Groups

Chicago Spanking Party – (Chicago)
Male Doms for Male Subs – (New York)
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party – (San Francisco)
Sigma – (Washington, DC)
SpankDC – (Washington, DC)


The following are public play sites that cater to BDSM including spanking. Check each site’s web page for hours of operation, cost, rules, etc.

1763 (Atlanta)
Command Performance (Ft. Lauderdale)
Fetish Factory (Ft. Lauderdale)
Paddles (New York City)
Sanctuary (Los Angeles)
The Citadel (San Francisco)
The Crucible (Washington, DC)
The Loft (Gastonia, NC)
The Sins Center (Chicago)
The Warehouse SC (Greenville, SC)