Real-Life Groups, Parties, & Events

The following are spanking-oriented groups or events based in the designated cities. Some of the groups hold events in multiple cities so please check their websites.

Many have prerequisites for attending a meeting or social that are explained at the site to which we link. Although I am not personally familiar with each of these, I strive to post groups that are reputable, active, and free of spam on their discussion board(s). Nevertheless, the standard safety caveats prevail, as they should in any activity related to kink participation.

I welcome your input on these, or other groups that could be added to these lists regardless of their location. Our readership is international. Contact me via email if you have comments or suggestions.

Many events are offered that encompass the full range of BDSM incuding spanking, and they are worthwhile endeavors. However, since the focus of this blog is spanking, I present below special events that are spanking oriented.

Multi-Day Events (USA)
Sponsor Event When Comments
Lone Star Spanking First Annual LONE STAR SPANKING PARTY May 28 – May 31 A Red-Rumped Renaissance! with a Saturday night Masquerade Ball
Texas All-SWtate Spanking Party Texas All-State Spanking Party (TASSP) Jun 19 – 21
Loving Domestic Discipline The Learning Domestic Discipline Retreat Sep 25 – 28
Big Easy Bottoms Up Spanking Party Details here Oct 1 – 4
Spanking Club of NY SCONY Spanking Weekend in the Mountains Oct 9 – 11 plus extra days

One Day or One Session Events (USA)
State Location Sponsor When Comments
AZ Phoenix Spank University Jun 27 New Member Orientation Jun 25
Spank University Oct 10 New Member Orientation Oct 8
Queen Creek Spank University Dec 12 New Member Orientation Dec 10
CA San Francisco San Francisco Men's Spanking Party 2nd Sunday of each month See website for details and location
Spank Jul 18 At SF Citadel
Spank Nov 14 At SF Citadel
DC Washington SpankDC 3rd Saturday of each month M/m group
GA Atlanta SpankMe In Atlanta May 30 At 1763 from 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM
MI Detroit MDSS Last Day of School Party Jun 20 7:30 PM – 1:30 AM
NC Raleigh Triangle Spanking Clubs 2nd Party May 29 7:30 PM – 1:00 AM
NY Manhattan Paddles NYC First Saturday of Every Month 7:00 – 10:00PM
Manhattan Men Spanking Men Parties In NYC 4th Thursday of each month 250 W 26th St between 7th & 8th Ave – Far Right door
Manhattan SCONY Jul 12 from 1:00 – 5:00PM 236 East 3rd St – Lower East Side between Avenue B and Avenue C
OR Portland Oregon Spanking Party Jun 30 8:00 PM –11:00 PM
PA Philadelphia Delco Spankos Sep To be announced
Philadelphia Delco Spankos Nov To be announced
WA Seattle The Palms Jul 11 dinner
Seattle The Palms Sep 12 dinner
Seattle The Palms Nov 14 dinner

One Day or One Session Events (Canada)
Location Sponsor When Comments
Calgary Strict Discipline Jun 10 Calgary Adult Playground Club from 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM

One Day or One Session Events (UK)
Location Sponsor When Comments
Birmingham Moonglow Spanking Club Jul 13 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM Dom Men and Compatible Companions
Moonglow Spanking Club Sep 21 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM Dom Men and Compatible Companions
Moonglow Spanking Club Nov 16 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM Dom Men and Compatible Companions
Moonglow Spanking Club Dec 14 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM Dom Men and Compatible Companions
London 2kings Various dates every month Link here for schedule
Manchester Manchester CP Group Second Friday of each month Men's group
New Grange New Grange Manor Jul 11
New Grange Manor Sep 12
New Grange Manor Oct 31 Hallowe'en Theme
New Grange Manor Dec 12 Plus party – this will finish late
Various Locations The Muir Academy Numerous dates Link here for schedule

United States Based Groups

Bottoms Up – (Dallas – Ft. Worth)
Carolina Spankers – (Raleigh, NC)
Crimson Moon – (Chicago)
DC Spankers – (Washington, DC)
Delco Spankos – (Philadelphia)
Florida Moonshine – (Tampa)
HankySpankyMN – (Minneapolis – St. Paul)
Houston Adult Spanking – (Houston)
Iowa Spanking Society – (Des Moines)
Jersey Shore Spankos – (Southern New Jersey)
Manhattan Spanking Association– (New York City)
Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS) – Detroit
Motor City Moonshiners – (Detroit)
Omaha Spankings Parties – (Omaha)
Oregon Spanking Party – (Portland, OR)
Our Need and Desire Spanking Group – (Chicago)
Shadow Lane – (Las Vegas)
Southeastern Virginia Spankoholics – (Tidewater Area)
Spankers of the Southeast – (Knoxville)
SCONY (Spanking Club of New York) – (New York City)
Spank – (San Francisco)
Spank University – (Phoenix)
Spanking Parties – (Listing of various groups)
Strictly Spanking NY (SSNY) – (New York City)
The Palms – (Seattle)

USA Male/male Groups

Chicago Spanking Party – (Chicago)
Male Doms for Male Subs – (New York)
San Francisco Men’s Spanking Party – (San Francisco)
Sigma – (Washington, DC)
SpankDC – (Washington, DC)

United Kingdom Based Groups

2 Kings Spanking Parties (London)
Courtroom in Session with The Caner
Manchester CP – Male/male group
Moonglow Spanking Club
New Grange Manor
The Slayers


The following are public play sites that cater to BDSM including spanking. Check each site’s web page for hours of operation, cost, rules, etc.

1763 (Atlanta)
Church Spank (Amsterdam, NL)
Club Pedestal (London)
Fetish Factory (Ft. Lauderdale)
Paddles (New York City)
Sanctuary (Los Angeles)
The Citadel (San Francisco)
The Crucible (Washington, DC)
The Loft (Gastonia, NC)
The Sins Center (Chicago)
The Warehouse SC (Greenville, SC)