This page lists spanking-oriented groups and clubs or BDSM groups based at the designated locations. Some of the groups hold events in multiple cities so please check their websites.

Many have prerequisites for attending a meeting or social that are explained at the site to which we link. Although I am not personally familiar with each of these, I strive to post groups that are reputable, active, and free of spam on their discussion board(s). Nevertheless, the standard safety caveats prevail, as they should in any activity related to kink participation.

I welcome your input on these, or other groups that could be added to the list regardless of their location. Our readership is international. Contact me via email if you have comments or suggestions.

United States Based Spanking Groups
State City Group Name Comments
CA San Francisco San Francisco Men's Spanking Party Male/male
San Francisco Spank
DC Washington DC Spankers
Washington Sigma Male/male
Washington SpankDC Male/male
GA Atlanta SwatLanta
IA Des Moines Iowa Spanking Society
IL Chicago Crimson Moon
Chicago Chicago Spanking Party Male/male
Chicago Our Need and Desire Spanking Group
KS Kansas City KC Spanks Or link here
MI Detroit Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society (MDSS)
Detroit – Ann Arbor Michigan Spanking and Pleasures (MSP)
MO Kansas City KC Spanks Or link here
NC Greensboro Carolina Spanking Enthusiast Club
Raleigh NC – Triangle Spankers Club
NE Omaha Omaha Spanking Parties
NJ Southern Region Jersey Shore Spankos
NV Las Vegas Shadow Lane
NY Manhattan Manhattan Spanking Association
Manhattan NYC Tuesday Night Spankers
Manhattan Spanking Club of New York (SCONY)
Manhattan Strictly Spanking NY (SSNY)
OR Portland Oregon Spanking Party
PA Allentown Allentown Area Spankos
Philadelphia Blushing Moon Club
TX Austin Austin Red Bottoms Club
Houston Houston Events Calendar
VA Tidewater Area Southeastern Virginia Spankoholics
WA Seattle The Palms


BDSM Clubs & Educational Centers*
AZ Phoenix Burlesque (Kink) University
CA Los Angeles Sanctuary
San Francisco The Citadel
DC Washington The Crucible
FL Ft. Lauderdale Command Performance
Ft. Lauderdale Fetish Factory
GA Atlanta 1763
IL Chicago The Sins Center
NC Gastonia The Loft
NY Manhattan DecadenceNYC
Manhattan PaddlesNYC

* This section lists public play sites or centers that cater to BDSM including spanking. Check each site’s web page for programs offered, hours of operation, cost, rules, etc.