She said: Spank me, dominate me

In the blog The Frisky, Jessica Wakeman discusses her exploration of D/s with a former boyfriend who enjoyed spanking and dominating her. A good essay that gets into the emotional and psychological aspects of D/s.

Girl Talk: I Wanted To Be Dominated

I texted him as soon as I woke up.

“What do you want me to wear today?”

I brushed my teeth and washed my face while I waited for him to text me back.

“White button-down shirt. Tuck it in. Your jeans. Flats. Put your hair in a ponytail. Send me a photo.”

I dressed as instructed, then stood before the wall-length mirror in my apartment’s hallway. Smiling into the mirror, I snapped a photo on my iPhone and sent it to Ben*.

Thirty seconds later, a text message: “Very nice.” Then I knew I could leave for work.

Ben was not abusive. I was not being hurt, nor was I unhappy. We were in a dominant/submissive relationship — or playing at one, anyway — and following his orders got me unbelievably, unbelievably turned on. …

Read the entire essay at: http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-girl-talk-i-wanted-to-be-dominated/