Athough several years old, I had not seen this piece until today. It appeared in Associated Content back in 2006, and provided an introduction to adult consensual spanking. This is a good article to show to that vanilla SO you’re trying to bring into spanking, and is also a solid reminder to long term spankos.
BDSM Relationships – Adult Erotic Spanking and Paddling
Spanking as erotic stimuli is a very popular piece of the whole BDSM or D/s (Domination and submission) culture. WHY? Well, in part because of the hugely erotic emotions of vulnerability for the submissive, and partly due to the physiological responses caused by pain stimuli. Then, add in the ‘helpless surrender, but I am safe with my lover’ feelings, the fact that the buttocks are a major nerve-filled erogenous zone, and an overwhelming flood of endorphins – and there you go! Instant Pleasure. …
I agee totally! When I got spanked while OTK, I felt toally helpless and under her firm control. I forget if I was aroused or not, but I’m sure I was. Still, the feeling of a firm bare hand on a bare backside while in a truly helpless osition would be worth the pleasure of being spanked or having an implement used.