The brush wins
We’re so happy!
Spanking can be good for relationships – study
Sadomasochistic sex may be stressful at first, but it could bring you closer to your partner, new research suggests.
US scientists studying an S&M “event” found that levels of the stress hormone cortisol went up in both men and women on the receiving end of S&M activities like spanking, bondage and flogging, the New Scientist magazine said.
At a separate S&M party, women showed significantly higher levels of testosterone when experiencing these types of S&M activities. The researchers said the testosterone boost may be a sign of stress, or may help women deal with the aggression displayed by their partner, New Scientist reported.
However, levels of both hormone soon dropped back to normal if the experience went well. Afterward, many couples reported feeling closer to their partner.
“When sexual intercourse in consensual it is not stressful, even if it is extreme sex,” said a scientist quoted by the magazine.
Guess what I have behind my back?
Geographic Corporal Punishment Proclivities
Here we look in on a strong caner administering stinging cuts to a well deserving lad at a past “Night of the Cane” (NOTC) competition in the UK. My research revealed that “Night of the Cane” is (was?) a party night hosted by The Firm, a UK SM group, and included a caning competition. NOTC occurred once a year from 1999-2007 although I see no reference to any more recent events. What a shame if it has been disbanded. Can anyone shed light on The Firm or NOTC?
Those of us on this side of the pond have a respectful interest in, and fear of, a well delivered caning, and I would love to see more of this type event. What would we call such a thing that is unique to the US:
- Period of the Paddle?
Swing (Dance) of the Switch?
Come on folks, chime in with your suggestions regardless of where you live. Like our favorite kink, All Things Spanking has worldwide participation!
Look what I found … new groups in this big, bad, scene
StrictlySpankingNY (SSNY) – “is an old fashioned, over-the-knee, discipline oriented spanking group in the New York City area. We are a unique group of individuals who share a common head-space and have come together to create a place for all spanking enthusiasts to enjoy. Our primary goal is to create a safe, playful, fun environment for spankos of all ages, both newbies and seasoned alike. Link to their website.” There’s likely a real-time party or munch coming up! All Things Spanking links to SSNY on our Real-Life Spanking Opportunities page.
SubsForDommes – is a relatively new, free, online group that provides discussion forums, personal ads, chat, and other BDSM support including a healthy interest in spanking. All Things Spanking links to SubsForDommes under Spanking Forums in the right margin.
Reform school is tough!
Here we look in on a classic scene wherein a recalcitrant young adult receives his just rewards from a stern Matron. This piece is by Franco, a renowned spanking artist, who sketches many F/m scenes. Franco’s art is highlighted at Veralsi’s Spanking Showcase that also features a number of other spanking artists with material for all persuasion and combination of spanking … Top, bottom, male, female …
Ever wonder what the rest of the reporter looks like? Is Doing?
As seen on Cu-Cu
An enlightened view …
…. of spanking and BDSM appears by Courtney Bee, Sexual Health Examiner, in today’s issue of The Examiner. I encourage you to link to the article, and read it in its entirety.
Spank me if you love me: An intro to the world of S&M
“I may hurt you, but I will not harm you.” That’s the motto of Lily Fine, a professional dominatrix and S&M workshop instructor. “I will not hit you too hard, take you further than you want to go or give you an infection.” Fine may practice these sexual endeavors professionally, but there are many others who make BDSM an integral part of their relationship. Thanks to films like Secretary and Nine and A Half Weeks, the stigma associated with sadomasochistic behavior is slowly starting to shift. Adult toy stores have been stocking punishment and bondage accessories for years, and now there are even several dating websites that act as a kind of Match.com for those seeking their S&M soul mate. …
Communication is the key
Found on strenger Leher
How pure art thou?
I’ve seen spanking purity questionnaires before, but liked this one when I saw it. It stuck me (hey, there’s an idea) as being quite comprehensive, and focused on what traditional spankers may do. I was 86% pure. A solid “B”?? Thought it would have been an A. Guess I have more “studying” to do. Cram time … ummmmmmmmm, that suggests an altogether different activity.
The 100-Point Spanking Purity Test
by Raandi from a now defunct website.Have you ever…
1. Posted to a spanking newsgroup/bulletin board/mailing list? yes
2. Bought/downloaded spanking pictures? yes
3. Bought/downloaded spanking magazines or literature? yes
4. Been in a spanking chat room? yes
5. Bought spanking-related books in a real bookstore? yes
6. Written a spanking story? yes
7. Looked up the word “spank” in the dictionary? yes
8. Bought/watched a spanking video? yes
9. Cyber-spanked someone or been cyber-spanked? yes
10. Watched someone else get spanked in real life? yes
11. Been to a fetish shop such as Kinematics or Stormy Leather? yes
12. Purchased toys specifically for spanking? yes
13. Made your own spanking toys? yes
14. Spent more than $100 on a single spanking toy? no
15. Owned 10 or more spanking toys? yes
16. Had a spanking fantasy while masturbating? yes
17. Had a spanking fantasy about a real life spanking you’d seen/read about? yes
18. Had a spanking fantasy while having sex? yes
19. Spanked/been spanked while touching intimately? yes
20. Spanked/been spanked during sex? yes
21. Given/had an orgasm while spanking/being spanked? not just spanking no
22. Spanked/been spanked with no specifically sexual overtones whatsoever? yes
23. Spanked/been spanked on the bare bottom? yes
24. Spanked/been spanked for more than 10 minutes? yes
25. Spanked/been spanked for more than an hour? yes but not straight continuous
26. Been involved in a situation where if something went wrong, the only
means to stop the scene was a safeword? yes
27. Used your safeword/ had someone use their safeword? yes
28. Spanked/been spanked where there was no safeword? yesSpanked/been spanked with:
29. A hand? yes
30. Paddle? yes
31. Hairbrush? yes
32. Ruler? yes
33. Spoon? yes
34. Cane? yes
35. Switch/birch? yes
36. Crop? yes
37. Belt/strap? yes
38. Flogger/whip? yes
39. Implement with holes? yes
40. Ordinary object not intended for spanking, such as a remote control or
shoe? yesHave you ever…
41. Broken a toy (over someone’s bottom) during spanking play? yes
42. Switched? (been spanked if you are primarily a top, or spanked someone
if you are primarily a bottom) yes
43. Spanked/been spanked on the back of the thighs? yes
44. Spanked/been spanked on the front of/inside of the thighs? yes
45. Spanked/been spanked on the breasts/genitals? yes
46. Wet your/your partner’s bottom to make it sting more? yes
47. Spanked/been spanked outside? yes
48. Spanked/been spanked in a hotel? yes
49. Spanked/been spanked in a car? no
50. Spanked/been spanked in a bath, shower or hot tub? yes
51. Made someone do something/been made to do something they/you did not
want to do? no
52. Punished someone/been punished for not doing something correctly or
refusing to do something in a scene? yes
53. Punished someone/been punished for a real life issue? yes
54. Used spanking “talk”? (ie “You’ve been very naughty,” “I’ll be good,”
etc.) yes
55. Been involved in the acting out of a roleplay fantasy? yes
56. Been involved in the acting out of an ageplay fantasy? no
57. Asked for/been asked for a spanking? yes
58. Made someone/been made to count the spanks? yes
59. Made someone stand/stood in the corner? yes
60. Made someone stand/stood in the corner for more than 5 minutes? yes
61. Been provoked/provoked someone into spanking you by acting like a brat? yes
62. Deliberately disobeyed/had someone deliberately disobey, in order to
get spanked? yes
63. Kept a list of “infractions” to spank/be spanked for later? yes
64. Spanked yourself? yes
65. Spanked yourself at the instruction of someone else/instructed someone
to spank him/herself? yes
66. Required someone to/been required to call someoneSir/Ma’am/Master/Mistress/ Mommy/Daddy/ some-other- variation during spanking play? yes
67. Met someone specifically for spanking play? yes
68. Traveled more than 100 miles to spank/be spanked? yes
69. Placed/answered a spanking personal? yes
70. Gone to a play party or club? yes
71. Participated in play with someone at a play party or club? yes
72. Spanked/been spanked by someone whose name you didn’t know? no
73. Paid or been paid to spank someone? yes
74. Been involved in a spanking scene with more than one person at a time? yes
75. Spanked/been spanked by both men and women? (not necessarily at the
same time) no
76. Spanked/been spanked on a spanking horse or some other piece of
furniture specifically designed for spanking? yes
77. Made videotapes of your spanking play? no
78. Taken pictures of/had your partner take pictures of you during or after
spanking play? yes
79. Admired your/your partner’s bottom in the mirror after a spanking? yes
80. Spanked someone/been spanked nude? yes
81. Bought new underwear specifically for spanking play? yes
82. Worn fetish clothing (schoolgirl outfit, leather, etc?) no
83. Worn fetish clothing in public? no
84. Spanked/been spanked so that the spankee had trouble sitting afterward? yes
85. Spanked/been spanked so that the spankee had trouble sitting the next day? yes
86. Spanked/been spanked so there were marks/bruises showing? yes
87. Spanked/been spanked so there were marks/bruises showing for more than a day? yes
88. Had to explain your marks to a vanilla person? yesBeen involved with any of the following in connection with spanking play?
89. Restraint (ie. holding someone down, trapping their legs, etc.) yes
90. Restraint with ropes, cuffs, scarves or other bondage toys? yes
91. Blindfolds? yes
92. Gags? yes
93. Nipple clamps/clothespins? yes
94. Icy hot or some other heat-enhancing cream? no
95. Ginger root or some other burning/stinging substance inserted anally? no
96. A butt plug, dildo or vibrator? no
97. Mouthsoaping? no
98. Enemas? yes
99. Temperature taking? yes
100. Cried/made someone cry from a spanking? no
It’s my serve, keep your eye on the ……….
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