Spank in moderation

From the Sex Doctor in Mirror.co.uk:

His spanking is too much

Dear Dr Cath,

My boyfriend’s a little kinky and likes to spank me when we have sex.

Sometimes I like it but at other times it feels painful and puts me off.

I’ve tried to ask him not to do it every time but he can’t help himself. What can I do?

Dear reader,

TALK to your boyfriend and let him know you don’t mind the spanking but would sometimes like to try something different – even just plain straightforward sex.

In the throes of passion it might be difficult for him to tell whether you want spanking or not, so decide on a signal or phrase that gives the go-ahead.

That way you can keep him guessing – the anticipation could give him an extra buzz too.