Lolita Wolf is a native New Yorker, who discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.”
Following a recent scene conference she attended, Lolita posted a piece about her late evening and early morning escapades with her boy. To excerpt from her blog:
I put him to bed with instructions to bring us coffee in the morning.
The next day the boy went a bit overboard. He and a room service waiter knocked on our door and wheeled in an entire breakfast! How luxurious! Of course, such behavior needs to be acknowledged, so I took care of it the only way I know how.
I love coffee and caning!
Note: Photo from Lolita Wolf





















Thanks! It’s great to see a male bottom once in a while! I love your site!
Thanks, Lolita, and I hear you. We aim to please; or is it please to aim?
I know Lolita Wolf and I know she does not travel with a cane …When she comes to Las Vegas …I told her I do not believe in caning, not in the states and if I would perferred one it must be a real sugar cane …
Hey Lolita…if you like good pix go to my blog … I only post the best … check it out … there a lot to read and learn on my blog…
I love coffee, and I sure would love to cane this naughty women’s bare bottom.