AskMen.com has run a lengthy article entitled “Master The Art Of Erotic Spanking” by their Women’s Sexuality Correspondent, Dr. Victoria Zdrok. The article is written from the perspective of male Top, female bottom, but elements of the article can be extrapolated for Femdom orientations. Part of the opening reads as follows:
… Yes, spanking can be sexy, and a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked. Most men, too, find spanking a woman to be a strong sexual turn-on.
But sexual spanking is not the same as the punishment spanking we may have experienced as children.
For a woman, the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent over her partner’s lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man’s hand warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come.
For a man, the arousing aspect of spanking is the feeling of control and power over his helpless lover, and the excitement of playing with her attractive bottom, turning it pink and putting her in the mood for some hot, passionate sex. …
Link here to read the entire article that includes plenty of additional information including suggestions on how to administer a successful spanking.
