Fifty Shades Darker: Comments by an expert

Per the author bio attached to this article: “Sandra LaMorgese Ph.D. is an expert in personal and professional reinvention, authentic living, communication, and bridging the gap between sexuality and a lifestyle that focuses on holistic health of the mind, body and spirit. Sandra is the CEO of Attainment Studios, a sex positive business directory website designed to bring together members of the sex-positive community, and for finding solutions for your professional and personal needs. She is author of Switch: Time for a Change, a memoir of her journey from holistic practitioner to professional dominatrix at 55-years-old after losing everything, and her passion and purpose is to empower others towards healthy authentic living. …”

Sandara recently posted in The Huffington Post:

Take It From An Actual Dom: ‘Fifty Shades’ Is Pathetic

BDSM is a healthy practice for safe, consenting, and sane adults. No one needs ‘fixing.’

At first glance, BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) may seem like an abusive practice carried out only between heartless, psychologically disturbed sadists and victims with low self-worth. Appearances, however, are often misleading, and with BDSM, this misunderstanding is especially profound, as is obvious in the new movie release, “Fifty Shades Darker,” an erotic romance film. …

Link here to read it all.

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Summer approaches

It has been warm here of late, and summer is quickly approaching. Need we say more?


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On the road again

Miss Jenn Davis is a Seattle-based Disciplinarian who loves OTK spanking, domestic discipline, role play, punishment, and life coaching. She is articulate, and drives her point home with vim, vigor, and vitality while applying the implement of choice to your deserving derriere. Miss Jenn will be hitting the road, well traveling not really hitting, in the coming weeks to:

Baltimore on February 26 & 27.
San Francisco on March 17.
Nashville on April 4.

Will Miss Jenn bring her new bath brush along? Only time will tell.

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The Summer of …

Here’s to the World is a relatively new blog on Tumblr that focuses on stories related to spanking of all variations, domestic discipline, and female led relationships. A recent post consolidated Parts 1-9 of their inaugural story, The Babysitter. In this tale, David’s wife has out-of-town commitments over the Summer, and feels that David is not capable of properly caring for himself or their home. So, she retains the services of another woman to keep David on the straight and narrow. David meets the woman in Part 1 where we read:

The Babysitter Parts 1-9

… “Hi David, I’m Miss Amy. We’re going to be spending the summer together!” she said with bright enthusiasm. “I think we’re going to have a lot of fun, don’t you?” David could only stammer out “yeah I guess” before his wife came quickly down the stairs. Her taxi to the airport had arrived. He helped her with her luggage & they said their farewells. Amy followed them out & waved goodbye. As David watched the taxi wheel away he felt Amy reach down & take his hand. “Why don’t you & I go inside & have a little chat.” she said, & led him back into the house, both gently & firmly. …

I urge you to follow the link to read the entire saga. It is well written, and will capture your attention.

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The Hunteress is back

Cassie Hunter (The Hunteress) has come out of retirement much to the glee (or perhaps discomfort) of deserving subjects everywhere. She posted in her recent newsletter:

After more than a decade of Super Domme Service (yes I thought I was going to retire too, but it seems my loyal subjects in every corner of the globe cannot replace me!) I have decided to come back on the scene. Alas my life has moved on from the United Kingdom so I am now permanently based in Asia.  I thought long and hard about whether I wanted to return to the scene at all, I don’t really need to; but I have had so many emails from people declaring how much they missed me, that I decided to come back, albeit with a premium service. …

The Hunteress is available in Bangkok, Manilla, Hong Kong, Singapore, Bali, Tokyo, and Sydney.

So, those of you looking for a memorable experience, follow the link to The Hunteress’ website, and inquire. What do you have to lose?

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Thought for the day

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The Alt Super Bowl

The Super Bowl has come and gone with the Atlanta Falcons making history by blowing a 25 point lead to lose. Those of us in mourning, or looking for an alt fact about the game, might take solace in this shot from a past Lingerie League game.

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Zen Spanking Revisited

From Men’s Health we read:

WTF is Zen Spanking?

If your wife or girlfriend is somehow only now discovering Fifty Shades Of Grey, she’s probably curious about exploring the back aisles of Spencer’s Gifts and trying some kinky shit. But before the two of you dive straight into bondage, you might want to start with something a little more tame . . . something a little more “Zen.” …

Follow the title link for the full article.

See also our prior post on Zen spanking at Zen and the Spankofile

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Spanker or spankee?

Who cares?


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That English Vice: Can you trump this?

From the Evening Standard via MSN.com:

New London street art appears showing Theresa May ‘spanking’ Donald Trump

When Theresa May talked about “the special relationship” with Donald Trump it’s unlikely she had this in mind.

Street artist Pegasus has created the work showing the world leaders in a compromising position on Great Eastern street, Shoreditch,

It shows May laughing while she apparently spanks the US president who is laid across her knee. …

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Julie’s schoolgirl saga

I have referred to Strict Julie on a number of occasion. Normally, she is dealing with her husband david’s misdeeds or her desire to spank him … just because. Of late, however, Julie has been sharing a bit about her evolving (?) subbie side. In particular, she has just concluded a six part saga of her schoolgirl fantasy, and its repercussions with her friend Tracy and her husband John. Julie is a fantastic writer who allows her followers to feel, along with her, the emotions and sensations of the moment. I re-post from Julie’s blog the opening paragraph of each part of the saga along with a link to the entire post. If you have not yet read this, I urge you to do so.

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 1)

As I related in my previous blog post, Another Paddle, Another Paddling!, Daddy and Tracy together had cooked something up for me. A nasty new paddle was involved; and I was to present myself as a schoolgirl in a short skirt. I was going, however, with the intention of taking things much further than either Tracy or her husband John could possibly dream of if the opportunity was right. …

 

 

 

 

The Schoolgirl Fetish

So what is it about this schoolgirl fetish thing anyways? …

 

 

 

 

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 2)

As you can read from the previous installment, I was role playing a naughty schoolgirl, and my friend Tracy was my Mommy, and her husband John my Daddy, and I had earned myself a spanking, both for my poor report card, and for my choice of panties. …

 

 

 

 

 

 

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 3)

So we started in on the roleplay. Tracy was my Mommy. Her husband John was my Daddy. I was their naughty school-aged daughter with the bad report card and the inappropriate panties, waiting with my nose against the wall for Daddy to get home. I don’t remember all the dialog exactly, but I’ll recreate the gist of it without bothering you further. …

 

 

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 4)

Continuing the recounting of my latest role-playing experience with my friend Tracy and her husband John. Tracy played my Mommy. Her husband was my Daddy. I was their naughty school-aged daughter with the bad report card and the inappropriate panties. Mommy had spanked me first, and then Daddy took me across his knee, and spanked my little caboose red with just his hard hand! …

 

 

 

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 5)

Where we left off in the previous installment is that I had gotten my bottom spanked by first Tracy and then by her husband John, and then Tracy had laid into me with a dozen strokes of the giant nasty paddle. I thanked her, and then I sat on John’s lap and thanked him also, and made my “special request”, which was asking them if John might possibly fuck me…

 

 

 

 

Schoolgirl Punishment (part 6)

So, up to now I’ve had to dress in a schoolgirl skirt, pose for photos, go over Tracy’s knee for a hand spanking, go over John’s knee for a hand spanking (!), take a nasty paddling from Tracy, take a belt whipping from Tracy, and then had to have sex with John (!!). You can understand why it’s been a six-part post! Mercifully, this is the last installment. …

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Snap that strap


Found on FetLife. Artist: Endart.

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