She stokes your knowledge about spanking

rebecca-jane-stokesRebecca Jane Stokes’ Twitter feed (@beeswrite) states that she is “Senior Sex & Love Writer @YourTango, Host of #BeccaAfterDark, General Humorist, Entertainment & Lifestyle Writer, Fat Woman, and Hufflepuff.” Recently, she posted a piece related to spanking online at Your Tango. It’s an interesting article, and we post the opening paragraphs below. I urge you to link to the full article.

The REAL Reason Smart Women Love A Good Spanking

We all need a good spanking.

Spanking has always been a hot button issue, but it’s always been an issue that has confounded me, both as a child and as an adult.

I was only spanked once as a kid, and I was just as confused about what I was supposed to feel about it as my mom was.

But as an adult, I get why women like to be spanked for sexual pleasure.

Because I’m one of those women. …

See other Rebecca Jane Stokes articles related to spanking as follows:

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Miss Jenn hits the road … or you?

bizsuit-2Miss Jenn, a Professional Disciplinarian from Seattle, has a couple sessions left in Downtown Dallas if you’d like to see her Dec 1-5th. She is also planning to visit Ft. Lauderdale for the first time, and will be there January 23rd and 24th. If you’d like to session with her at either one of these locations, and make her trip extra special, please contact her via her website.

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Just a day on the train or seen on the scene


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Honey can you turn up the heat

… it is a little cool and drafty in here.

Note: How will “honey” choose to turn up the heat?


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An interview with Ms. Kimi

kimiMs. Kimi is a Denver-based Disciplinarian, and hosts local spanking parties. The dates of these events can be found on her website (, or on the events page at All Things Spanking. Ms. Kimi and I have been planning to chat for some time, and finally accomplished it. She is a delightful lady who thoroughly enjoys burning both male and female buns, and is quite effective in doing so. All Things Spanking hopes you enjoy getting to know Ms. Kimi a bit better, and welcomes your comments.

ATS: Thank you for taking the time to chat with me. This has been a long time coming due to my procrastination. You offered to move things along with some “Ms. Kimi motivation.” Is that now off the table (lap?) as we are finally doing it?

MK: Hahaha! Next time I see you, you’re so going over my lap!

ATS: Promise? hmmmmm … OK, we better get to the interview. What do you like about spanking? Dislike?

MK: I love everything about it. I don’t think there’s a single thing I dislike, except, maybe when I bruise my hand doing it.

ATS: Many spankers admit they were interested in spanking since early childhood, but thought they were either “nuts” or didn’t understand the dynamic. You have commented that you allowed your interests to remain hidden until finally venturing out to your local BDSM club. Many of us have “recessive” years we wish we could regain, and satisfied our needs by fantasy, browsing the library, etc. Could you tell us about any such adventures you had?

kimi2MK: I had an incident in fifth grade where I smacked a friend of mine on the backside at a sleepover we were having. She went to school and told everyone I was a lesbian because I had done that. Of course, being gay wasn’t accepted like it is today. There was a lot of teasing that went along with the whole thing, it was traumatic for me, to say the least. So, I kind of locked it up until I felt I was safe and never got into much of that. (Other than scouring skin-a-max in my teens and checking out all of the centerfolds backside’s in my dad’s Playboy magazines.) I DID watch the spanking scene in The Secretary about a million times, too!

ATS: Spanking children is something neither All Things Spanking nor a wide range of adult spanking enthusiasts endorses. Spanking was a common form of punishment in many homes and schools in days of yore. Do you know what a spanking feels like either from youthful life experience, or as an adult? Many believe that a disciplinarian should know and understand the effect of her/his implements.

MK: First off, I feel that I must say, I am absolutely, 100% against spanking children.
I was spanked plenty as a child! (Can you say brat?!) Only a handful of times as an adult but, yes, I have some experience on the receiving end.

ATS: You have stated that: “One family I sat for gave me permission to spank. I only did so once, but I found the power and control exhilarating. I immensely enjoyed it!” This was back in the days when spanking children was still viewed as an acceptable means of punishment, not like today. What about this act impacted you in such a manner?

MK: Taking that power from someone was such a rush. Now, it’s given to me, but it’s still a phenomenal feeling.

kimi3ATS: You have hosted a monthly spanking party in the Denver area for some time now. Will this continue? Will Ms. Kimi’s parties be offered elsewhere?

MK: I’ve only hosted in Denver, but would be completely open to hosting it in other cities.

ATS: You are traveling more of late. Could you comment on that?

MK: I typically travel within the US, monthly. Omaha is usually my busiest city, and I go there often.

ATS: Many disciplinarians have started to combine coaching with their disciplinary style. This usually goes beyond role play, and allows the disciplinarian to help someone with a real-life issue. Do you engage in coaching of this manner?

MK: I do, but not often. I think that helping people is ingrained in me.

ATS: There are many different spanking styles such as maintenance, playful, judicial and so on. Do you have a favorite style? Why?

MK: Domestic discipline is very high on my list because it feels so natural to me. I also enjoy people who want to see how much they can take, really pushing their limits and allowing me to be the one who pushes. Not a style, but I love it nonetheless.

ATS: Do you have a favorite position for the spankee? What draws you to it?

MK: I love them all, but lately the wheelbarrow has been a favorite. I like how accessible someone’s backside is in that position. They are very exposed and vulnerable.

ATS: What is your favorite implement? Does it vary based on the type of spanking being delivered?

kimi5MK: I had a client who wanted to leave with severe bruising. SensualPaddles made me a Hickory Stick for the session. It is my favorite if someone is standing up and wants a very heavy session. OTK, my hand. Laying down flat, a cane.

ATS: Do your family and vanilla friends know what you do, and what do they think of it?

MK: My family is mostly gone, but the few who are alive don’t know. They’re very religious, and would probably disapprove. I don’t care if they find out, but there’s no reason to tell them either. A few of my vanilla friends know, and they like to tease me about it.

ATS: You offer videos via Clips4Sale. Have you worked with any of the other spanking studios, or do you plan to do so? How could an interested party obtain your material?

MK: I haven’t worked with any other studios lately. I was a guest spanker on RSN a very long time ago, and Mike and I are friendly when we see each other at the national and local parties. I work better on my own, but am always open to collaborating with others.

kimi6If you want to check out my clips you can visit my website or go straight to my clips store-

ATS: Thanks again for taking the time to chat with me, Ms. Kimi. Is there anything else you would like to comment on?

MK: Hmm, first I want to thank you for being so patient with me to respond! Also, thank you for the awesome service you provide for Disciplinarians, and the spanking community.

ATS: Thank you for your kind words, Ms. Kimi. Having patience with you was no problem. After all, you hold all the motivational tools.

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USA election

All Things Spanking has take a week off to devote time to some personal issues, and digest the surprise result of our election. Despite Hillary winning the popular vote by a sizable margin, Mr. Trump prevailed in the Electoral College. This is the second timed in sixteen years that a Democrat has won the vote, but lost the election (Gore in 2000, with Bush winning).

The origin and history of the Electoral College is based on the concept that citizens with “voting rights” should advise a truly learned body who would then meet independently of the election to choose a President. Suffice it, for now, to say that the Electoral College was created in days when women could not vote and the USA was still enslaving African Americans. It is an antiquated institution, in our opinion, that has faults.

These are scary times. A man with no prior governing experience and a slew of other faults will become President in about ten weeks.

We have already seen far too many hateful acts performed against minorities, POC, the LGBTQ community, etc. by apparent Trump supporters after the election. On days when enlightened people of every political persuasion scream for healing of the wounds our election created, the hateful among us have read this election as a mandate to sharpen their viciousness. There have been reports of stories related to hateful chants that some kids have initiated in schools, hijabs being ripped off, and other heinous and disgraceful acts. We are disgusted by the hateful acts and words that some of our fellow Americans enact and espouse.

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She did it

Strict Julie has been paddled, and now knows it feels to be ignited. Without further ado, I urge you to read the brief excerpt below and then link to Julie’s blog for the entire story. As always, Julie is articulate, and paints a wonderful picture of the scene.

Julie Paddled!

Well, I did it, and OMG was it ever freakin’ painful!!! But fun! My butt is busted! …

Strict Julie before and after her paddling

Strict Julie before and after her paddling

“Ok, young lady… It’s that time. What time is it?” she asked.

“paddle time?” I answered.

“That’s right!” She picked up the paddle and she started rubbing it over my ass. Down low just where the letter said. The paddle was surprisingly cool. And the surface, I could already tell, felt hard.

I felt the paddle leaving my butt. And then nothing… nothing… then WHACK!

FUCK!!!!! HOLY SHIT!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!

That paddle hurt SO freaking much!!!
And that was just, FUCKING, number 1!!!! …

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Time for lunch

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2016 Spanking Awards Nominations

Nominations for the 2016 spanking awards will be open throughout November. Link here to read all about it, and to nominate those blogs, video producers, spankers, models, etc. who you think warrant recognition. Voting dates will be announced when nominations are closed.


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The girl has a cavalier attitude

As we posted a few days ago, Strict Julie, blogger and disciplinarian extraordinaire was to have experienced the paddle a few days ago while she is OTK. However, the blessed event had to be delayed. As Julie tells it:

Strict Julie's saucy seat

Strict Julie’s saucy seat

… due to circumstances beyond our control involving the timely arrival of the package containing the paddle, Traci and I had to reschedule for Thursday night. We very much hope the paddle will be in hand by then! …

She goes o0n to say:

… still looking forward, with a mixture of dread and anticipation, to my first punishment paddling …

Julie – xoxossss

C’mon, man! Gimme a break. Waiting on arrival of the paddle? I have heard some out-of-this-world excuses for avoiding the sting of a paddle, but “awaiting its arrival”? Oh, well, the clock ticks. And Julie waits.

Who knows, maybe a fresh, new Canadian brat will be born of the experience, and bottoms all over North America (the World?) will be spared from another proficient paddler? Then again, Julie’s dedication to correcting obtuse behavior may only be strengthened.

So, dear readers, let’s all go to Strict Julie Spanks! and give this fine lady the encouragement – or ridicule – she deserves. I know she has not hesitated to do so with me when directing the scorching of my derriere from afar. Yes, Julie has a long reach.

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Redcoat invasion

opheliaOphelia de Havilland, UK-based disciplinarian, is returning to North America. An aristocratic lady, Ms. de Havilland stands 6 feet tall, and has the power and desire to firmly secure you for a well-deserved spanking. She also says “please remember that first impressions are very important. Ensure that you are respectful and show good manners. I like intelligent people with a sense of humour, who are honest, fun to be with, respectful and above all, who love to be spanked. Speaking of first impressions, please remember I am an English Disciplinarian, not a mistress. Start your email with ‘Dear Miss Ophelia’, and do not refer to me as “Mistress” or “Goddess”.

The upcoming schedule is:

Toronto 6-7 November
Chicago 8-11 November
Washington 12-14 November
NYC 15-18 November

After reading her website, call or email Ms. de Havilland to express interest.

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I wish I were closer so I could participate

Strict Julie's saucy seat

Strict Julie’s saucy seat

As many of you know, Strict Julie is a Canadian who has an interesting domestic discipline relationship with her husband david. For years now, she has been posting epic stories of david’s plight when he screws up, or when Julie merely decides it is time to punish his ass.

Of late, Julie has been posting on her curiosity about receiving a solid spanking. She has questioned what it truly feels like to feel the kiss of a paddle, what thoughts she would have leading up to the moment, and how she would react.

As is Julie’s bent, she has shared many of her thoughts in blog posts, and will continue to do so as she ponders what “subby julie” would be like. Hop on over for a fantastic read. Actually “reads” as Julie has already placed several posts in October 2016, and will continue to do so.

My thoughts? Where is that passport, and who could resist paddling an ass assassin’s ass especially one as delectable as Julie’s?

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