When it is clear what happened


Via Tumblr (Spanking). Original source was not credited.

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Thursday Thoughts – Is it one for all?

Thursday Thoughts is a weekly column in which Ms. Victoria Kay, a Phoenix-based Disciplinarian and Spankologist, provides her insights to reader questions or those posed by All Things Spanking. Thursday Thoughts columnns are archived on a page of its own in addition to being available through the normal search feature. Please email if you wish to suggest a question for Ms. Victoria.

Question: Many spanking enthusiasts speak of judicial, punishment, maintenance, erotic, play, or other types of spankings. What are your thoughts on these various sub-categories for a spanking? Do you apply them, or do you subscribe to the philosophy that “one who has earned a spanking deserves the very best … an intense bottom burning experience?

Ms. Victoria says: My role as a top is actually to be of service and in that sense it is very important to understand and adjust accordingly to someones needs, interests and desires. I don’t feel that a one size fits all. There are definitely common threads that run through various types of Spankings however each one ends up being unique within itself. Now I have to say that everyone does leave with tingling and sore bottom though 馃槈 to various degrees.

There is an understanding and intention set before the session through correspondences, however once someone is in front of me in person and the spanking begins, there are forces at hand which direct and flow with the authentic energy transpiring. This is what I find most interesting and beautiful about individualized therapy. And I say therapy because honestly through all categories of spankings, one of the underlying elements I speak of is catharsis. People come in one way and leave a little or a lot transformed.

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Her look says it all

Jeri Patterson’s pensive glance tells all as she awaits the slash of a cane at Firm Hand Spanking.

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Another canceled Facebook listing

Vanessa de Largie is an Australian actress, author, sex-columnist, journalist and blogger based in London. All Things Spanking has communicated with Vanessa on several occasions, and previously featured one of her published articles. Today, Vanessa emailed me to solicit help in appealing the removal of her business Facebook page. I repost the pertinent parts of the email, and urge you to review Vanessa’s situation and take action. But for the luck of the draw, there go any of us. On behalf of Vanessa, thank you.

Hi Mitch, hope all the spanking is going well? Teehee.

My facebook fan page has been removed by facebook and I’m distraught as that’s my niche market. It’s all the oppression of female sexuality.

Would you or any of your liberated friends be interested in signing my petition? You can view link here.


Thank you so much for your consideration.



Update: June 19, 2017

Late last week, Vanessa posted an update to her signature petition that she was withdrawing from an appeal to Facebook due to pressing work opportunities. She has now decided that the Facebook issue is too important to walk away from. Vanessa’s email to me is copied below.

Hi All,

I apologise for the group email.

I don’t usually ask for other people’s help. I’m too proud!

But I would like you to consider reading and signing my petition.

Or even sharing it. Thank you for your consideration.


I am PASSIONATE about the oppression of female sexuality. And I will never stop raging against the machine.

Because I know in ‘my bones’ that I’m right regardless of what others think of me.

Vanessa xx

Update: June 19, 2017 – See also Facebook鈥檚 Deletion Of My Fan Page Supports The Oppression Of Women! that was published on Huffington Post.

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Spanking and the brain

Rebecca Jane Stokes, a Brooklyn-based writer and editor at Your Tango, recently published an article that is germane to all of us who enjoy adult spanking. How does our gray matter react when we are being reddened. Read it all here.

What Really Happens To Your Brain Chemistry When You Get Spanked During Sex

… You might love getting beaten during your kinky sex, but that doesn’t mean you’ve sat around and thought about what spanking during sex has to do with your brain.

In fact, while your brain might be working overtime helping you get your kinky freak on, chances are you aren’t pondering its chemical mysteries while enjoying spanking during sex. …

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An Argentine take on adult spanking

El Blog de Lilil Blue is an Argentine erotic and sexual advice blog in which Pepita Miravet recently posted (June 15) an article on adult spanking … a subject near and dear to the readers of All Things Spanking. We post both the original and English translated versions of the opening paragraph, and urge you to link to the full article. You will likely see the post on its original form, but any good translator will work, if you need it.

El arte del spanking: gu铆a para dar y recibir una buena azotaina

El spanking o azoting es todo un arte y forma parte del sado light que tan presente est谩 en nuestras vidas desde que Christian Grey y la se帽orita Anastasia Steele se lo montasen en la habitaci贸n roja de la edulcorada Cincuenta Sombras de Grey. Aunque no lo cre谩is, el spanking es una pr谩ctica mucho m谩s profunda de lo que parece a primera vista. Esta pr谩ctica er贸tica implica un juego de roles de dominaci贸n / sumisi贸n y supone a la vez una fantas铆a sexual para muchos ac贸litos del sexo m谩s all谩 del misionero. Antes de continuar quisiera dejar claro que estamos hablando de azotes consentidos dentro del terreno sexual entre dos personas adultas, en el que la sumisi贸n y la dominaci贸n son perfectamente v谩lidas y consentidos entre el spanker (azotador) y el spankee (azotado). …


The art of spanking: a guide to give and receive a good spanking

The spanking or azoting is an art and is part of sado light that is so present in our lives since Christian Gray and Anastasia Steele Miss montasen him in the red room of Sweetened Fifty Shades of Gray . Believe it or not, spanking is a much deeper practice than it seems at first glance. This erotic practice implies a role-play of domination / submission and supposes at the same time a sexual fantasy for many sex acolytes beyond the missionary. Before continuing, I would like to make it clear that we are talking about whipping in the sexual terrain between two adults, …

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Thursday Thoughts

Today, All Things Spanking initiates a new feature entitled Thursday Thoughts. It is a column in which Ms. Victoria Kay, a Phoenix-based Disciplinarian and Spankologist, provides her insights to reader questions or those posed by All Things Spanking. Thursday Thoughts will also be archived on a page of its own in addition to being available through the normal search feature. Please email if you wish to suggest a question for Ms. Victoria. Without further ado, here we go.

Question: Many bottoms feel it is important that a spanker know the effect of various implements they use. What prompted or encouraged you to spank, and have you felt the sting of your implements? Do you consider this important?

Ms. Victoria:
First of all I want to say, Thanks for having me on your blog!

Yes, it is very important as a Top to be aware of what’s happening on the Bottom.

When I Bottom, I prefer hand spanking but have tested out and occasionally receive my implements. As a Top, there is an art to orchestrating a good spanking and that art has a lot to do with what order the implements are given in and of course the various intensities. Implements are interesting in how they can deliver differing experiences based on how you use them and/or what feeling preceded it. I am a very conscious spanker and intuitive as well 馃槈

As for what encouraged me to Spank….well, I was introduced to Spanking by the lovely Ms. Elena Rochelle (upstate NY), fell in love with it and never looked back. Honestly I have a tremendous amount of gratitude for what Spanking had brought to my life and couldn’t imagine life without it <3

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More Zen and Spanking

Rebekah Holt has described herself as “a journalist and human guinea pig from New Zealand who is resentfully based in Australia.” She recently attended a tantra themed workshop presented by Caitlyn Cook and Jesse Thomas-Hall on zen and spanking. Rebekah chronicles her participation in a recent article posted online by The Spinoff.

Zen and the art of getting your ass spanked

Tomato Via Rebekah Holt’s page

Interested in getting kinky but don鈥檛 know where to start? A spanking class could be just the introduction you鈥檙e looking for. …

It鈥檚 April 2017, a sunny afternoon in Melbourne, and I am down on all fours in leggings and a shirt in front of another woman. She鈥檚 pleasant, youngish, and also from New Zealand.

If you walked in right now it would look like a yoga class, like someone getting a correction to their pose.

But she is actually asking me if I would like her to spank me. …

Read it all here.

See also:

Zen Spanking Revisited

Zen and the Spankophile

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The history and art of spanking

When I first saw this article’s title, I thought I was in for another opinion on the proper way to redden a bottom. However, I was pleasantly surprised. Dessidre Fleming is culture editor at MensXP where she recently posted a superb article addressing the history and art of spanking. We reposted a screenshot of the opening paragraphs, and encourage you to link to the entire article. It is an excellent read, and contains considerable examples of wonderful art.

Spanking Is An Art. We’re Not Saying It, This Illustrator Is & He’s Right.

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The cane is ready and so is she

Now, bend over, and do not move until it is done.

Photo found on Strict Julie Spanks!

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Memorial Day in the United States

The last Monday in May is Memorial Day in the USA. It is a day when we specifically honor the memory of those who have made the ultimate sacrifice in defense of our freedoms, but also honor all servicemen and women past and present. We do not forget the families of service members for they, too, make sacrifices. To commemorate this day, we present the Armed Forces Medley as performed by 鈥淭he Presidents Own庐鈥 U.S. Marine Band庐 and the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.

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Beware Europe

Princess Ammy, caner extraordinaire, is about to embark on a month long journey through Europe. She will be burning buns along the way. Check our Traveling Spankers page or Ammy’s FetLife site for her itinerary. Be careful what you wish for. This delightful, erudite lady plays for keeps!

Edited May 30, 2017: Photo posted by permission of Princess Ammy

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